Keep your mind open to the possibility that an ancestor was married before what you think was the "first marriage." The reason details do not quite "fit" may be because there was a previous marriage that ended because some died in childbirth, got ill, or simply left.
Always worth remembering as well that sometimes things seem confusing because there are details we have yet to discover.
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